A few weeks before Christmas we decided to road trip to South Carolina to spend the holidays with GC’s family. We hadn’t spent Christmas with his parents since 2006.
We were in good spirits on our drive down,
even the dog.
GC’s parents were on a cruise so we spent the first couple days in their house without them. The Roc and his Nonna made some Christmas cookies together when they got back.
The Roc was very excited to be with his SC cousins for Christmas. He was most excited to sleep at his cousins house on Christmas eve and wake up with them on Christmas morning…which is what GC and I were most worried about. Our Christmases have always been quiet and calm. This year would be so different and we could envision many things that could make the Roc melt. We did a lot of prepping before we left home and crossed our fingers that things would go smoothly. I was still worried a little until my sister-in-law Andrea texted me,
“We love Roc so much and will be there to help if he has a rough time. It will be different for him to be here and we totally understand that.”
There is nothing like family who love your kid just as he is, understand that things may be hard for him, and are willing to step in and help. We are so lucky.
The Roc spent Christmas eve morning playing on the iPad and continually asking when we would drive down to his auntie Andrea’s house.
When we got there the fun began. The kids were so joyful. The Roc and his cousins immediately got together. They spent the night laughing and dancing.
The Roc and his cousin Bella even made up a dance and performed it for us. They are so cute together. Bella is a gift. She is sweet, playful, and so wonderful with the Roc. She reassures him when he is anxious and she is willing to play all night. She is a very special girl.
Guinness found a friend in my youngest nephew Anderson! He tried to hide his face but I captured this shot this funny little guy.
My mother-in-law shed a few tears when my brother-in-law from Colorado surprised us all and showed up! We were so happy to see him!
Before the kids went to bed my nephew Aiden read, “The Night Before Christmas” to all the younger kids. Almost all of my pictures of Aiden on Christmas Eve are of his blurry face as he slid in front of the camera or waved his hand in the corner of my frame. Except this one. He’s a good kid.
The next morning the Roc expressed some anxiety before leaving the bedroom to open presents, but after a little pep talk he told me, “Okay, I’m ready now. Let’s do this.”
We spent the rest of the day eating and relaxing before we headed back to GC’s parents house.
The holiday was a success all around. The Roc had so much fun spending time with his cousins and he was very well behaved. As we drove out of Andrea’s neighborhood GC and I looked at each other and he said to me, “I think that was my favorite Christmas yet.”
Last year, for reasons we never figured out, the Roc had such a hard time on Christmas day. So we are extra thankful for such a family filled fun holiday.
We made wonderful memories.